I wish I knew more about the divorce process, but unfortunately, I am at a loss. That may be what needs to be done, but I guess I won't know until I get there.
And honestly, I just want what is fair, nothing more. Right now we are even, but I hear H speaking as if we aren't. He will be in for a rude awakening to know that in the end he will be in the same position financially that he is now, and for quite some time. But, everyone learns their lessons the hard way, including me.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life