Thank you, Busting and FY for coming to the rescue.
My H is already learning his lessons--the hard way. He emailed me to ask if we could meet at his office on Friday. I said yes, but could not resist adding: "Today, I feel especially blessed to be the master of my own life!" And I do. I am free because I understood I don't need my H to be happy. I don't need anyone believing that they own me to be complete.
This thread already has a lot of replies, so I will start a new one:
