Hello, everyone. I think this might be my last thread.

My previous thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2335247&#Post2335247

After a long journey of nearly three years, my D will be finalized within the next few weeks. I did everything I did to save my marriage, and even though I wasn't successful, I learned and grew as a person.

I learned so much that I'm writing a book which I hope will help many others in similar situations.

Please keep me company as the date of my D nears.

My H is lost. He has started a R with a woman who is already giving him ultimatums if he sees me to do the taxes. He asked for my help before to tell him how he can be a better man and have more positive R.

I am angry at my H, but I'm still sending him love. What he's put into the universe will come back to him. That's the way things work. It's not in my hands to make sure he learns his lessons. He will. On his own. He's actually already learning...the hard way.