Of course, know I shouldn't but would like to say to spouse please dont text OW when with our daughter. Please don't talk about our daughter( she is having surgery tomorrow) to OW. it is disrespectful to her and me and our boys too.
Setting boundaries is not about controlling him, it's about controlling you. When he does something that is against what you stand for you take steps to protect you. Saying do not text OW when around our d is controlling him and that gets you no where. Your D has to set the boundary and she can choose to not be around him if he does this against her wishes. We cannot make other's do, think or believe what WE want them to. It's tough and completely suxx but... control yourself not your husband.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
