Sandi's tips vs bounderies

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Sometimes so desparate for answers!
D had surgery yesterday. she is doing fine. Honestly, sounds terrible but I feel less stress about her medical than I do about sit with h and me. She is resting now. back home after 1 night hospital stay. h came to house to stay night with S 16.sleeps in our bed. That is fine with me. s16 does not want to stay at H apt. H will stop by after work, also fine with me . D wants to see him(of course I do too). I did send H a text and asked him to please not discuss D with OW. disrespectful to me and all kids. I said I know I can't control his choices but would appreciate his considerations of my feelings in this regard.
I keep him updated on Daughter, but otherwise have stopped R talk. I am getting better at not sending text messages...He was in city of Ow last week for work. Would like to ask if he was with her but I have not. Wish I could put it out of my head! Still obsessed about it! Reason being , takes time away from his job and his children... too tired when he gets back...

I said continued affair was deal breaker, but obviously not... I am the better choice!I know that I am!
I have missed a couple of recent opportunities... He make comment Easter of him being a ""bad egg. My response.. you said it and or there was something where I said about him mind reading. Another was he made comment about being 50. I should have stroked his ego.. next time I will!