Thanks reb, for the input. That's what i'm doing. Just was always told I was emotionally abusive and blah blah. So i guess i'm trying to be civil with a huge wall.

Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB