She basically said that if we did taxes together, she was breaking up w him. Talk about controlling and insecure. So what my H was most afraid of is what he is attracting into his life: control. He said he knows this might not be the R for him but he wants to "explore it" more,
Wow, an ultimatum from the OW, and he fell in line!
So sad that H cannot see that their illicit relationship is almost certain to crash. Inevitably, he WILL one day regret throwing away the catch of his life... YOU!!!
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I was SO ANGRY! I still AM!
Understandable, and you have every right to be. But continue to stick to the high road, it's very becoming on you!
This doesn't mean you can't enjoy listening to Carrie Underwood's "Before he Cheats"!
I know you will coninue to be strong and find peace and love.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
