You and I both can over analyze everything that we could have /should have done .....we seem to be great at that.
What are you afraid of?
I was so afraid that my W was having a affair- she is I am so afraid my wife will leave me - she has I am so afaid that i wont be a good single dad - one day at a time
Remember- if/when your wife comes back it wont be the same. She needs to like the different you and you need to like the different her.
You and your wife are both finding yourselves- take the time to do it right. You and I BOTH need to stop waiting for them to come back. Im counting down hours (look at my thread:() We need to get out and take a look around and maybe just maybe have a little fun
This [censored]- Im with you........remember- do whats right for YOU!
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13