These OW's...I dont get it. My H's OW is also very controlling with threats...to the point that H has chosen her several times over his children. I just dont get the running towards someone that is so controlling when they claimed thats what they feel suffocated from. I think it emphasizes how lost they are....That is not an attempt to push him (them) down in order to make you (us) feel better.... right now...it just is what it is....Anyway---she (they) are neither here nor there. And it is ok to be angry Tori. Own it and let it go. I am sure you know why you are angry. Let it pass through you. You know how. And you also know that this is all a reflection of him and and where he is. It has nothing to do with you and who you are. ((((( )))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
