I've just noticed our details are very similar. Both 36, W both 31, S 3 and 1. Married nearly 5 years.
Because it's going well unless there is some sort of deadline approaching I would just keep up with what your doing if there is obvious improvements.
Something I have noticed in this mess is that it doesn't matter what is said, it matters what is actually happening. Getting her to agree to something so early on won't necessarily change the situation and could possibly undo the progress. The situation changing is what will get her to hopefully reevaluate and move forward.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
