Finished the moving, in my own place now. Move was exhausting but happy to be away from the battleground that our home had become. W is staying at my place for a couple days until her new place is ready. Had to tell her that she could only stay with me if she didn't go out and drink all night as this behavior from her has been too stressful and hurtful on me and S. She was a bit defensive about it but I kept the approach from a calm standpoint of mine and S's needs and she followed through with it last night. W is going out of town for the week for work so I get the whole week who my boy. Going to have some fun with the Muppet!
Other than that I feel much lighter with only being responsible for me and S. I feel like my focus will be improved now. I was definitely struggling to stay on task while living with W. Detachment will be easier being separated. I have been doing well with our interactions but the inner emotional drain was huge.
More to come as I figure out the next step.
Me-36 W-31 M-7 S-5 BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand
Seeking means: to have a goal Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal
