Think about this one. Often times we justify things to ourselves...."I'm just being polite" or "I'm really concerned for her" or "she looked thirsty!" In reality, you probably are pursuing.
Yes you are right. Sometimes I feel more like I have not seen W for a while, or I need to interact or be polite. So I guess I need to stop myself from doing these things at the moment. I guess even though I know what I need to be doing, I am still finding it difficult to put it into practice. At the moment I feel like giving myself a good slap and telling myself to get my head back together, before all the good i am doing for myself and our R is reversed by my emotions taking over.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
