Originally Posted By: BRNR
I have also had some thoughts on Success stories of reconciliations. It seems to me if the H's are already gone, living outside of the marital home and constraints, that they don't seem to return.

Good morning!

I couldn't help but chime in when I saw this. My H hasn't moved back in yet, but we are in the process
of reconciliation. Idk if I have the strength to have had him at home where I wouldn't have had my own privacy to hide my grief.

I agreed to him moving out b/c I thought that if it was me begging to go, I would've wanted him to treat me the same way.

BRNR, I know how hard it is. Really! But listen to what snodderly has to say. If you really still love your H, just wait. He is growing and that can't be rushed. I just couldn't let the comment go that they never come back home. I'm still hoping mine does. smile

rH


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway