I second the notion of "sit quietly and do nothing" For the first time in 5 years since the bomb I have backed away and sat quietly. Its amazing how much my XW has contacted me. She has said she is sorry, she has bent over backwards to try to do nice things for me and shown her appreciation of me as a father and a person. Now, she has done all that while opening admitting she is in a serious relationship.
So, we all eventually get to the point where we start dropping the rope. As it has been highlighted on this form many times, that is when our X's tend to take notice.
My heart goes out to you BRBR.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09