So I just got a call from wifes concerned childhood friend. She told me she asked wife if she is open to reconcilliation. Apparently wife said 'I dont know how when I am in love with someone else'

Not sure what to make of that. I mean I know its pretty much basic affair stuff. She feels lust and believes it love. She told her friend she doesnt know if its a forever kind of love.....

Doesnt change my approach. Still working on being the husband only a fool would leave!

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017