That depends. Who should keep the washing machine? I'm guessing the one that's doing all the laundry for the kids, right? That seems fair.

Take the advice of validating as this...
Who is your buddy (excluding W)? So let's say Jim
When Jim says, "Dude (I'm dating myself here ;-) I want to move to the cool district in the city." You would probably say (as any good friend would), "That's awesome man, yeah go for it!"

Get the idea? She's Jim. You're in the friend zone.

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017