OK sorry. Like I said, I have trouble figuring out where on the spectrum is appropriate. I haven't ever turned a blind eye, I've said, and repeated, and argued, and brought in counselors, and coached the kids, and the friction over this issue is one of the top reasons my marriage is ending. There's no blind eye, I don't think. He just doesn't agree. I really value your opinion.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
