In reading what I have just written, I see I have contradicted myself. I listed things that we do together and then said we don't do much together anymore. I guess what I really mean is that we do things that are everyday things that family members do together. The massages are above and beyond.
If she has spare time for recreation, she does that with her friends. She uses me as her automatic babysitter. (and that's another thing that our situation does for her. It gives her guaranteed babysitting with no required time for her to return home.) (Hell, while I was on a trip, she contacted one of my friends to see if their oldest could babysit overnight for her! How messed up is that?!)
