Wfm,

I've been giving wife space for 6 months. Just changed things up because there really has been no improvement in our situation even with me giving space. My job has me gone half the month anyways. How much space does a person need?

I know one of her LL is physical touch. This week I started giving that to her again. I used to massage her feet for her while we would watch tv. She would ask for me to do it for her because she liked it so much. About a month ago I did it while we were on a ski trip. She mentioned that it was nice. It was like it used to be. Figured I'd do it again for her.

My wife does things with me. Watches tv, eats meals, shops, and even has couples massages with me. But she's stone cold to me emotionally. It's like she's dead inside. It's very strange and quite troubling.

Tried to sleep, but couldn't. I came downstairs to write this our and get it off my chest.