It's spew. You will be better off in every way if you can hear him say something like that and breezily say that you are sorry he sees it that way, you don't feel that way at all. And let it go.
A lot of this stuff hurts, and the antidote is to take more responsibility for your own emotional state. Detach. Let him work through his issues without letting them jerk you around too. Be pleasant, know yourself, stay busy, don't feed trolls.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
