I am not sure why he dreads his own B day but he says he feels its nothing special anymore. Will do a card and hug.
This week has been a bit strange, in our workplace there are many other foriegners who have been married and divorce with Japanese spouses. This seems to have a negative effect on my H because he is using their failed marriages as an excuse for D.
Infact he compared what was going on in our marriage to another friends who just got himself kicked out of the country because his W sued him for emotional abuse. Frankly, I didnt even know you COULD sue for that reason. H made a snide remark about how I am, like this guys W, trying to make him miserable.
I did good this time and stood up for myself. I said. "It really hurts to hear you say that. I wouldnt try to screw you over for an insane amount of money for THAT reason. Something is wrong with that guys W. She probably just wanted to get him kicked out of the country, it has nothing to do with the money."
I wont think to much into it, but it really hurt to hear him talking like that. =(
