PF, not sure i have much to add except that I have felt the same way that you are feeling now. W and I are getting along better but she shows no real signs of affection. And I also know what you mean about hoping to not get crushed.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.