One other thought -- this forum espouses working to save your marriage except in cases of abuse. If you're married to an abuser, appealed to make it stop and were disregarded, then sometimes it's better for you and the kids to be away from an abuser until they decide to get their act together. Maybe you think this is harsh because I'm sure there was lots of good about your H and there was a lot to love, but if a top 3 cause of your marital problems were you speaking out against abuse, then no harm no foul on your part right?
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
