So this Saturday, as planned, I sent sailing with my 3 girls, and their friend's mom and her 2 kids. My W had made other plans for Saturday that didn't involve us. Well, these plans fell through, so my W says she'll go with us, and hang out at the dock. Then she suggests that maybe the other mom will hang out with her -- in other words, I go with 5 kids sailing alone while the women stay on shore.
Yes, I was more than a little annoyed.
I told her that if she was going to come, then she would go sailing with us. I also told her I didn't appreciate being her "plan B"
Anyway, we went and had a great day. My annoyance and discussion of being "plan B" instigated a relationship talk later that night. She started the talk. One topic was this OM that I believe she is pursuing. She insists that she is not.
The discussion continued on Sunday and then Monday morning. In an email that she sent me today (Monday) it ends:
“What really makes me unhappy is thinking you don’t love me anymore. That really gets me...”
Wow, I read this and think about what she has said, done, and the way she treats me, and wonder why else would I still put up with her sh!t. Unbelievable.
