Emotional Affairs

[jaytee35]

Starsky,

I completely understand your take on this. I probably should have elaborated more on why the spouse having the emotional affair usually does so.

I do believe the spouse having the emotional affair usually does so not only because thier spouse hasnt lived up to thier expectations but also because its a self esteem issue. And they usually have some sense of need for entitlement and uplifting to make them feel important....or appreciated or whatever..

The thing is no matter why a person choses to do so, it is still wrong and we know that. But it goes back to the fact that no matter what a person does they cannot control nor change another person. Therefore, All we can do is control our own actions...Which in this case should be to GAL, Let Go and fix yourself

M 33
W 32
M 5 months
S 1 month