WAW_SC,

Definitely to late for the love languages.

At this point anything you do that even remotely has signs of trying to fix the marriage will be percieved as manipulating her into changing her mind for your own good.

I too am in a situation where the WAW took off her ring and has said she has no interest in marriage counseling or fixing the marriage. She is set on the D.

Our only chance of getting them back at this point is to GAL and let them go...Sounds crazy and trust me I still think it is. But I do understand the philosophy to let them go and if it is meant to be they will come back.

If it is not meant to be, Make sure you are taking a step back and acknowledging what you did to hurt the M. So then you can use this gift of time to help yourself and make you a better person.

GAL, Detach, Let her go.......Trust me its hard...I am doing the same thing as we speak

M 33
w 32
M 5 months
S 1 month


Me 33
W 32
Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13