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Thanks Breakdown!
I think me being a pleaser comes from not wanting any confrontation--in any aspect. I don't want to sound weak though either. I'm a very strong minded person & if it's something I feel strongly about I'm not backing down. My 'pleaser' moments come in to play when deciding what to cook, where to eat, taking the last shower, choosing what to watch on tv, etc. Types of things that aren't a big deal, so I let them go without voicing my opinion to keep everyone else happy.

If I had to guess his 5LL is probably physical touch.

As far as my role in M I don't like that I've been as laid back as I have. We have never been a couple to celebrate anniversaries or birthdays. Something we should have been doing. We never buy each other gifts for Christmas or Valentines (although he did get me something this year). I now know I should be more focused on my relationship & not take anything for granted. I always assumed that we were stronger than we were. We have been the couple our friends always refer to as 'That Couple' the one that nothing will ever happen to. Ha!