Question...

I'm going to IC... Wife has gone to IC (unsure if about R)... she's asked if I'd go to see a MC (to be tested)

We attend a church together... have lunch together... speak
for about 15 minutes sometimes about our R.

I ask her everytime we speak what I can do for her (acts of
service)... she comes up with something real I can do (this
is not reciprocated)

She has not committed to moving back in or a timeline... has commented "you go work on yourself... I'll work on me.. and if we're meant to get back together, then we'll work on it later"

There have not been legal papers filed.. to talk of a D timeline or R timeline.

Are we "piecing" - or am I not getting it...

Things are healing at a snails pace.


H 44
W44
d3
m12.5