#1, I may regret saying this online...but my D2 D2 Lulu
Anyway, I would second Labug's questions. It's been awhile (miracle!!) since I've had an outburst and a huge reaction, but I ask myself those questions when I spin.
The visitation thing is hard, but I think it would help out. And frankly, TOTALLY MY OPINION!!, I think it would help for your H to not be around so much for you! Having to see him all the time has to make it hard to detach. I have seen a huge cooralation to my ability to detach from H and the amount of time I see him. It's just so nice to have that time with just my kids, he gets his time with just the kids. I mean, it's reality since we are separated.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
