Anyway, she's been having an EA with a co-worker (her assistant manager, a man 20-something years her elder) and I believe she is seeing him... no wait, I know it because she's said as much, albeit apparently with a second assistant manager in tow. She always clams up when I bring up his name so I try not to mention him because I think it's a bit of a power trip for her.
So is she having an EA or not? Do you really know, or are you trying to convince yourself there isn't anyone else? The reason I ask, is b/c some of the things I've said is based on how a WAW in a A would feel. The basic information is about the same, but we still need to know if there is an EA or not. It would have a great deal to do with why she's suddenly ready to leave the father of her four small children.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
