Originally Posted By: jp787
Originally Posted By: Incandenza
Sounds kind of hopeless if what I'm supposed to do is also what's making things worse.


Do not pursue. That said, be available when she initiates communication, then validate and be the new you.



BINGO. You said it far better than I was trying to, JP.


Starsky

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