I agree with keep_going, examine your motivations and make sure you're not reacting to the hurt. But it sounds like you can be really proud of yourself and your inner strength. Space could be a good thing for awhile. And the playing pretend family is a killer. Take care of yourself and baby!
Do you both mean that I might be jumping too quickly to divorce?
I just see no other alternative. This man is currently sleeping with 3 woman, claiming he is in love with 2 of us. I don't see him stopping, I just don't. He admitted to 6 PAs in the first 4 years of M and claims he didn't after we had kids, but why should I believe him? When I asked him about the nurse before, he said it was nothing. Not even a friendship really. I flat out asked him, not even in an accusitory way, if he was sleeping with someone besides OW. Nope.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
