You are so brave and strong. I think it is good to get some space and time and let your emotions settle. You have been exposed to a lot of emotional information as of late, you are taking care of very young children and pregnant. Let yourself settle and and focus what is really important now which is YOU and your well-being physically and emotionally. Leave H to be for now. He has to work out this sh!tstorm...not you. You need to heal YOU.
Thinking of you and love you.
Busting
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home