Sorry that you had to start your day on such a sad note. I hope you feel some kind of relief after that talk. I think it is smart of you to talk first with your IC before defining your next steps.
Remember - it's better to calm down before making any major decisions. You want to make sure they come from the right motivations.
It sounds your kids had a good Easter. That is always good to hear.
((((Talulla)))))
Thanks, Keeping. It is insane that when he said he was the closest he has been to really cutting off OW that I did think "wait, can we fix this..." Yeah, then I read the texts and remember this isn't about her or me. There is another OW currently. He will never stop cheating. I flat out said I thought there was another person besides OW, and he denied it. It will never end.
Then I beat myself up for even thinking it. So, that's why no more family time. That's why, he is like my cryptonite. After the conversion he mentioned already having bought me a birthday present. I thought, well, that was nice. Sigh. This is going to take some time to really sink in that he is absolutely no good for me. He even texted me first thing this morning wishing me a blessed day. Yeah. Whatever.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
