Time for the Loop the Loop on this rollercoaster!

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Hi everyone. Just got back from easter feast with the in laws. Had a great time and had some awesome food.

I will try my best to not preach or teach from now on. Mr Bond is is dead right! Its not that I feel I need to correct you, and he is right that you all know the facts (not sure why or how I offended people when I originally stated the facts). It is more that I am venting my frustration. Mr bond is right, these are things that I actually want my wife to acknowledge, not all if you.

Anyway, I will try to move on now, and not have an outburst like that again .

Been thinking about being the father figure in our relationship. I see some behavior rhat I need to change. The question is, do I start changing it now during this touchy time? Or do I wait for more stable time, after a reconcilliation if that happens.

The reason I am not sure is that maybe it would bw a negative change at this point. For example, I try to solve my wifes problems too much, kind of like a father. If I stop that now, wouldnt she feel I am abandoning here?

Not sure. Its tough to try to change something that is part of who you are and perhaps part of what my wife likes about me. Its just that I have come to feel she is acting out like a teenager.



Been thinking