Ahhh....have not done it yet....amd yes this is a pattern I guess I never knew how much my emotions take over...but look at any interaction I have had with H so far...they take over...no matter how I want it to go or what I try to picture the outcome being...my frustration, hurt, pain, saddness, resentment and anger take over...
If you are having trouble controlling your emotions around him, then you need to detach a bit more. Find a way to do this...
Me 33, H 34 T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch) M 4 DD 3 OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010
1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea) OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11) I moved out 3/12/11