Originally Posted By: findingself
Ahhh....have not done it yet....amd yes this is a pattern I guess I never knew how much my emotions take over...but look at any interaction I have had with H so far...they take over...no matter how I want it to go or what I try to picture the outcome being...my frustration, hurt, pain, saddness, resentment and anger take over...


If you are having trouble controlling your emotions around him, then you need to detach a bit more. Find a way to do this...


Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11