Little. I fired 5 counselors. All 5 of them told me to leave my W. One of them gave me a business card to a L. There is no point in MC unless it is solution based. Zero.
You are not detached. Not at all. By showing your H that reaction he feeds off it. He knows your still hooked. He is not worried about losing you. I know you know this. I know how hard it is. He feels guilty for what he is doing so that is why he wants you to go out and meet other people. it is scripted..
this stands out to me
"AND, I have had it my way to have them here at home with me ALWAYS"
This is a HUGE issue ^^^ Huge. I hope you really think about that. I suggested in the past "mom's house, dad's house" Maybe you should read it and then hand it to your husband when your done. It covers D and most important separation.
Keep your chin up and don't let your IC intervene with your marital problems again. there is not point to MC ever unless solution based. Otherwise they will push you to D.
