[quote=Incandenza]Complicating things are a few superimposed situations--she is strongly attracted to a co-worker who she shares and office with, and while she says that this is an unreciprocated attraction, it is distracting her from our relationship nontheless. [/quote
Inc, I'm confused. On your other thread (on the "Infidelity" forum), you said that your wife was having an emotional affair. Here, this sounds more like unrequited pining. Which is it? While most would tell you that there's really no difference between an EA and a PA (and for women, particularly, a strong EA can even be harder to overcome), there's a HUGE difference whether or not these two are mutually in an EA with each other or if this is just your wife pining for a co-worker.
