Thanks spartan. Good of you to take the time to catch up on my sitch.
All good advice and short and sweet feels the right way to go. I also have a tendency to talk too much which at times means I say something silly that W picks on.
Could you give an example of validating. I need to read my books again starting this week, but if there is a simple example you could give it would really help.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.