Yesterday W decided we should work on a few simple home improvement projects... I hung some blinds, etc. She did some cleaning.
She decided that we need new couches. Our old ones are getting pretty gross from S. She'd like something leather that cleans up easier.
We hung out with her family for dinner. I dressed in jeans and shirt I know she likes. She commented on the pants and how they were tighter than what I normally wear. She made a comment about wanting sex "someday" or possibly another kid.
When we went to bed she put her hand on me rather than laying as close to her edge of the bed as possible like she's done since 3/25.
So... I'm still not sure what I want to do. Obviously, she has some things to work through.
I'm now debating just continuing with DB practices until she seems to really come back around. At that time I may suggest MC and Retrouvaille. If she declines, well... I guess I'll have a decision to make.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done