Need help!!

[Jeack]

Just amazing how our WAW become. not even able to answer simple questions. Guess it's like in the Bronx tale when the guy was chasing a guy down for 20 dollars he owed him and then the guy said do you like that kid? he said no but he owes me money. Then the guy said you just him out of your life fro 2o bucks! Kinda the mood i'm in right now. Just venting. Happy Easter to all my DB'ers 1cross+3nails=4giveness

[AnotherStander]

So I texted my STBXW that I still haven't received the divorce papers to sign, did she happen to know whats up? No response. I did end the message with are they sending them by pigeon i was trying to kid around and put lol at the end.

Why do you keep bugging her for the D papers? If you're here to DB, then DON'T ASK!!! Take each day that you don't receive them as a gift to extend your DB'ing another day. Your W may be getting cold feet about D, and if she is then the best thing you can do is keep your lips zipped

[Jeack]

I guess your right! Just the way she's acting and being is very unattractive. I've noticed my flaws in our R. But she needs to stop this limbo game. I shouldn't be paying for certain things if she wants out. She needs to realize if she 's done then she's on her own.

[Jeack]

Thought about it overnight and your right. Each day is a gift. Guess was getting a touch of hurt and anger, neither of which are going to do me any good. Made a to do list this week to help accomplish some personal goals and things that need done around my house.

[Pathfinder2]

Yes. That, and DON'T contact her for a week. Then extend it to two weeks...

Get yourself BUSY with other things and people. Try not to think about her or your situation. It does no good to worry or obsess. It will rob you of any chance of a good day today and will not solve anything in the future.

[Jeack]

Well here's the text I just got for her, not cold feet!!

Hey. Do you have time this week to meet up so I can get my stuff and sign the taxes? The lawyer emailed me back, she was on vacation. She said the papers will be sent today via regular mail and certified mail so you should be getting them. No pigeon mail lol. I would love to do the car insurance that way but I can only give 50 now and then the rest next pay. Let me know of you're ok with that. Hope all is well and that you had a good Easter.

[Jeack]

Here was my response. Just trying to figure out when to throw in the towel.


Yeah that's fine. Cathy called her to just serve her directly. And that's fine with the insurance, you can stop over either Tuesday or Thursday for your stuff. Did you get the care credit bill? I know it's due on the 1st. Hope your doing good as well.

[Jeack]

So my STBXW wants to meet to get a few things she left behind. But refuses to come to my house. Guess it would be to emotional for her. We have a mutual friend who agreed to just drop the stuff off to her. As much as i miss her and want to see her, I don't think it would be good since she filed for D. Opinions on what I should do