Ohhh god, I too am going through this as well.
BM I am so sorry you have this to face now.

My XW just announced last week she is in a relationship.
My kids talk about the guy now to me. He sound just like me with all the similar interests.

I have been struggling hard with this since the announcement a week ago.

BM, I have spoken to friends and family about this and sadly there is nothing we can do about it except move forward with our own lives.
We have to be strong and put up a positive front to our kids. They are in the middle of this and are hurting more than ever. We can't put our own emotional pain onto them.. They can't process it.
All we can do is be the "rock" for our kids.

((((BM my heart goes out to you))))

Me/W: 46/36
D7.6/S6
T/M: 7.5/6.5
Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09