Just a quick question to all out there.

I recently learnt about the 5 love languages and it is clear to me that my wifes love languages are "acts of service"and words of affirmation"

Considering the situation we are in now where she does not really want to see too much of me, feels tremendous pressure about the marriage and has made up her mind to not continue our M and taken off her ring, Is there any point on speaking her love languages? Is it too late for that?

Or is it better to focus on my 180's and getting a PMA/ GAL instead?

Just curious! Wth so many R strategies out there it gets confusing as to which to apply and how many of them to take on. At the moment my main strategies are 180's, GAL and detach.

Any help would be appreciated.


Me - 37
W - 37
M -5
T - 15

S=5
S=3

Seperated - 12/12
BD - 20/03/13
Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.