Panic has come and gone over the past few months. I have read DR, but I need to go back and refresh my memory on some of the strategies in the book. Basically I have left her alone for the past month and haven't brought up any talk about getting back together or old times and memories. Just mostly legal stuff about the house and if there is anything she left in the house(which wasn't much)that she still wants. Trying to clean out the mess that was left.
I have been working on myself and taking care of the house, dogs, my daughter, and everything that goes with that. I do get out of the house 1-2 a week with friends. I also have been working out and eating healthy. Trying to stay upbeat and happy with my life. I still have a lot to be thankful for.
I know it takes months to make any kind of difference. I'm not sure she will ever see it tho. We don't talk, barely text, and don't see each other any more. I guess this week I'll read the DR book again and pick up DB book as well.
I may try the phone coaching if funds permit. She is worth every penny and more, but the bills still needs to get paid.
Me: 42 W: 42 M 6.5 T 10 Bomb 1/1/2013 1:00am waw 1/10/2013 I filed D 1/31/2013