Thanks CB and WFM. CB you are right, how can getting along better be a bad thing? Baby steps.
WFM, I read your thread about withdrawing. Makes sense. I can definitely withdraw. The detaching is the hard part. Her actions definitely continue to affect me. Not as much as 3 months ago but they still do.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.