Grizz... u are doing AWESOME... keep it up!! No temp checks, NO R talks. Just continue to give her some space. I understand about the expectations... they stump me too.
P2 wrote something on my wall just a few moments ago regarding the diff between detachment/withdrawing... you might learn something valuable.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)