Grizz, I am also trying to protect myself from those expectations.
I have a come a long way with the W, but doesn't mean we are really "working on it".
But as MrBond told me, don't over think it. Y'all are getting along better. How is that a bad thing?
We all are going to have those nights or days were it hits is harder. I had one last night. W posted some pics on FB. Nothing bad, just her having fun with friends. I was upset because I wish she was having fun with me like that. Today I realized how stupid that is!!
Just keep moving forward. Patience!


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it