what about... "it doesn't sound like you are trying to get along with me, when you speak like that?"
Nope!! He doesn't want to get along with you right now. My W said the main reason she didn't want to work on things in the first couple of months because "she wanted to stab me in the face"
Don't bring up anything on how he is speaking to you. Don't react to it for a week no matter what. He's probably going to speak to you worse for the first few days when you don't react, but be strong
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it