The only thing You can do is tell him to get off speaker. No one is that busy. If he chooses not then tell him you will speak to him when you can here him better. WFM, he speaks to you like that because he doesn't respect you. You have to change that and stand up for yourself, but its not goin to happen in one or two or even three days. It's going to be weeks, months. Just do it an stop worrying what his reaction will be! It won't be any worse than what you are dealing with now
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it