H came over after I texted him that I am tired of being in limbo, says he is comfused, not sure about divorce or working on our marriage. Says it tears him up, he thinks about me all the time, and has a hard time concentrating at work. Says past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior. I said we'll let's stay separated and let's go out on dates and rebuild our friendship and trust, he said well I guess I'm not there yet. Advice besides GAL and continue my counseling? Go dark? I told him if he is leaning towards the D to just do it. He couldn't answer that either. Is this a genuinely confused H? Thanks again in advance.


Me 29
H 28
M 9
T 11
No kids
2 dogs
H moved in with parents 3/21/13
H wants a D 4/2/13
D Filed 4/5/13
Served 4/17/13